__Stephen Arterburn, M.Ed__., is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and the host of the nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show New Life Live! heard by over two million people each week on nearly two hundred radio stations nationwide. He is the bestselling author of books such as Every Man's Battle and Healing Is a Choice. With over eight million books in print, Arterburn has been writing about God's transformational truth since 1984. His ministry focuses on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God's truth.  
   
__Reverend Robert L. Wise, Ph.D.__, is an archbishop in the Communion of Evangelical Episcopal Churches. In 2014, Pope Francis appointed Wise to be his Apostolic Representative for Christian Unity. Wise is the author of numerous articles published in multiple languages and thirty-four published books.

__This book is for anyone who thought they were good friends with someone, only to be yelled at unexpectedly, for anyone who has a coworker who twists others' words, or for anyone who has a spouse who is violent and accusatory.__  
   
 Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental illness that can make loved ones feel as if it is their fault. Stephen Arterburn and Dr. Robert Wise wants readers to know it's not their fault and there is hope. In this book, they offer readers advice on how to relate to people with BPD at home, work, and church. Readers don't need to feel alone any longer. Help is on the way.

This practical guide shows how to support someone with borderline personality disorder without supporting destructive behavior or losing yourself in the process.

Contents

  
 Introduction by Stephen Arterburn vii

1. Blindsided! 1

2. Tension and Turmoil 9

3. Finding Solid Ground When the Earth Shakes 19

4. Figuring Out Where the Cannons Are 34

5. A Second Look at Anger and Boundaries 53

6. Madder Than a Hornet 62

7. The Children's Hour 73

8. Problems in the Pew 80

9. Mess in the Marketplace 92

10. When We Feel Defeated 101

11. Staying on Course 116

12. A Friend Indeed! 128

13. Forgiveness? Really? 133

Acknowledgments 149

Notes 151

Stephen Arterburn;Robert Wise

Introduction by Stephen Arterburn

1. Blindsided!

2. Tension and Turmoil

3. Finding Solid Ground When the Earth Shakes

4. Figuring Out Where the Cannons Are

5. A Second Look at Anger and Boundaries

6. Madder Than a Hornet

7. The Children’s Hour

8. Problems in the Pew

9. Mess in the Marketplace

10. When We Feel Defeated

11. Staying on Course

12. A Friend Indeed!

13. Forgiveness? Really?

Notes

Suggested Resources

About New Life Ministries

About Stephen Arterburn

About Robert Wise

This book is for anyone who thought they were good friends with someone, only to be yelled at unexpectedly, for anyone who has a coworker who twists others’ words, or for anyone who has a spouse who is violent and accusatory.  
   
 Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental illness that can make loved ones feel as if it is their fault. Stephen Arterburn and Dr. Robert Wise wants readers to know it’s not their fault and there is hope. In this book, they offer readers advice on how to relate to people with BPD at home, work, and church. Readers don’t need to feel alone any longer. Help is on the way.

Chinelo Daniels-Ifekwe

As someone who bought this book to support loved ones and a Christian mental health therapist by background, I am truly disgusted by the book. I have only made it to page 18 but I am so shocked by the language used. I had to check again if the writers were Christian as I didn’t feel this book showed love or empathy. Saying “deviant behaviours” “how to identify troublesome people” ”people like Mark” even the analogies e.g. comparing a serious mental health condition to Swiss Cheese is egregious. I truly wish I could give 0 stars but I cannot. If there is anyone out there looking to support their loved ones with BPD or any other challenge that has been written by this author, it is better to read the Bible for yourself and use other resources. I pray that we do not engage blindly with literature because of who has written it but because it actually accords to what God says about his children

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